Book Recommendation

Do you need a good book to read? If so, I'm here to help. I just finished reading a book that was so good I could not put it down.  The Help was written by Kathryn Stockett and was published in 2009.

I am definitely not a writer, so I will probably not be able to give this book the credit it deserves. But I will try.

The Help is set in the 1960s and is written from the point of view of three different women - two "colored" (her word, not mine) maids and a white recent college graduate.  It took me a minute to figure this out. I was appalled by the fact that the very first sentence of the book had a grammatical error in it, but then, as I kept reading, I realized I had to get my mind-set to read a "colored" woman's dialect.  It did not take long for me to get in the groove of things and become completely drawn in to this woman's life. And yet, as soon as I figured out the way she thought, the book switched to the next maid and I quickly became engrossed in another person's thoughts.

I was raised by both of my parents. I never had a maid taking care of me while my mother played bridge with her friends and I certainly never needed to receive love from hired help because of my mother's lack of it. And now, as an adult, my husband and I both work everyday and tend to the house ourselves. But this is all very different to the way of life during this time. The more I read, the more I realized that most of the time the one person that encouraged the children, fed the husband, cleaned for the wife, and kept the family glued together was the very person they kept at a distance and alienated.  These maids deserved credit for raising white children to become successful men and women but all they ever received was a below-minimum wage salary and occasionally some hand-me-down clothes.

Skeeter, the white college graduate, returns home from school to find that the maid that raised her, Constantine, has left their house without a word. Furious about not knowing what happened to her, Skeeter begins to interrogate her friends' maids to pump them for information about Constantine. Determined to become a writer, she decides to interview one of the maids about her life as a maid. And as she receives a good review of this first chapter of a book, she persuades Aibileen, the "colored" maid that she interviewed, to convince 12 other maids into letting her interview them too. During a time when segregation was everywhere and friendly contact with someone of another race was frowned upon, these women risked their lives to meet with Skeeter. This was their time, their chance to let their stories be heard.

To me, the book was eye-opening and wonderfully written.  I enjoyed reading and learning from the different points of view and watching as these three women blurred the lines between their different races. It was definitely a page turner and I really wish there was a part two so I could keep reading!

The Help is Kathryn Stockett's first book and the New York Times calls it a "button-pushing, soon to be wildly popular novel."  I read in an article that Stockett (a Phi Mu!) thinks there will be movie out in the next three years as a script has already started circulating.

 So, what are you waiting for? Go get the book and read!

Weekend Recap

The weatherman had told us that we would be getting some nice weather this past weekend, and he was right. It was so nice to see the sunshine again! Doc picked up some purple tulips on his way home from work on Friday and they have been such a nice reminder that spring is around the corner. Colorful flowers just make me so happy. I love them!

Saturday morning my mom picked me up so we could go shopping. The purpose of the trip was so I could pick out some birthday presents, so you know I was up for it! We went to an outdoor shopping mall so we could enjoy the nice weather. Doc was also enjoying the weather out on the golf course with my dad. In my family we kind of have an understood rule - the guys can play golf all they want but that means the girls can shop all we want. It works out pretty well. :)

Can I tell you about a pet peeve I have? It's pretty silly, but I was reminded of it while we were out shopping on Saturday. I always forget about this peeve, but it always reappears this time of year and doesn't take long to make itself at home under my skin. Ok, here it is: it really annoys me when people rush the seasons. I know - silly, right? But I can't help it. It really just kind of drives me nuts when one day of sunshine makes everyone throw on their tank tops and flip-flops and head outside. It's still winter! I'm all for leaving your coat in the coat closet and going out to enjoy the weather, but it's really not necessary to pull out your summer wardrobe. Trust me, I'm just as sick of wearing my winter clothes as everyone else and my toes are just itching to go sockless too, but come on! If I'm not mistaken, the time changes next weekend which means spring and Easter are only days away. I think we can leave the tank tops in the closet until then, can't we?

Oh, it's not just about the clothes either. Since we had a few days of nice weather this weekend, my office building is now running the air conditioning. !!! Today it was cold, damp, and rainy outside but the air was still on. My productivity rate declines significantly when I can't feel my fingers and I'm shivering all day.

And I'll get off my soap box now. Back to the weekend...

By the time I got back home, Doc had already picked up A and W and they had early birthday presents for me. Super exciting! I got a fondu pot from A that we immediately put to use after dinner that night.

From W I got an accessories kit for my laptop. It has a ten-key so I don't have to use the top row of numbers anymore and a small mouse that I can plug in. I can also plug up lots of USBs now and I have a light attachment. Pretty cool, huh?

After opening presents, we decided to grab the football and head to the park. The guys tossed the football back and forth while we walked. Here's a blurry picture of W catching it. (I still haven't figured out how to use my camera...class starts soon!)

A was jumping rope and I was bringing up the rear with this sweet girl.

We took the back path to the park instead of walking through the neighborhood. Along the way we found this tree.

(Yes, I realize A's dress is springy...)

Here are some pictures from our time at the park.

On the way back home, my sweet furry girl was dragging and ended up having to be carried. Bless her. It's hard when you have little legs.

I love her even if she can't go on long walks.

And I love this little girl too!

Unfortunately, my pictures from the weekend end there.  As I mentioned earlier, we topped off our dinner with a fondu dessert. Poor W gave up chocolate for Lent so he didn't get to eat any of the yummy goodness.

Sunday started off with church where Doc read scripture. He read 1 Corinthians 10: 1-13 and did a great job. In fact, several people came up to him after the service to tell him what a great reader he is. We had pizza and buffalo chicken tenders for lunch afterwards and the rest of the day was pretty low-key. I headed to Lowe's with my dad while Doc spent another afternoon outside with the kids. After Doc dropped them back off at their mom's, we settled in to watch the Oscars and came to terms with the fact that our sunny weekend was over.

New Toy

My mom and I went out shopping this past weekend and guess what she bought me... a cookie press!

I was so excited. Doc's mom has one and I've eaten cookies she's made with it, but I've never gotten to see it in action. I was very eager to try it out, so Sunday afternoon I whipped up a batch of cookie dough.

I started with a cup granulated sugar and cup of powdered sugar...

...and a cup of crisco and butter.

I creamed those four ingredients together, added two of these bad boys...

...and then mixed it some more.

Next it was time to add the sifted dry ingredients: 4 cups of flour, 1 teaspoon of soda, and 1/2 teaspoon salt.

Once I had those all mixed in, I added in the last ingredient: 1 tablespoon vanilla.

Now, if you wanted to make these cookies at home, you would go ahead and continue using your mixer to blend in the vanilla. That would make the most sense. But since I am so good in the kitchen, I managed to almost blow up my mom's mixer. Still not exactly sure how it happened, but there was a lot of smoke. Smelly smoke. Luckily, the cookies no one was harmed.

At this point it was finally time to load the cookie press.

Watch out, Martha Stewart. I'm comin' for ya.

I have to be honest, it took me a couple tries before I got rolling.

It was so fun! Just like the box says: one click = one cookie.  Here's a look at one of the first batches.

Soon I was experimenting with food coloring and all the different shapes. Here is a pic of each shape/color that I made.

They were all very tasty, if I do say so myself. The recipe made about 1,000 little cookies so my mom and I both took some to work today. They've all been gobbled up now!

If this post is considered a product review for the cookie press, I say it passes. It only took about two minutes to get the hang of it and it all cleaned up very easily. The only thing is that it did take quite a bit of time. Does anyone know if I could press the cookies out on cookie sheets and then freeze them? It would be much easier if I could just pull them out and bake them before a party or something. Either way, I can't wait to use my new toy again soon!

Updates

So it's been a while, huh? Let's get caught up, shall we? **********

When I last posted, I had been to the doctor that day for a prescription. Turns out, though, that I picked up a little extra with that prescription...the stomach bug. It hit me early Tuesday morning and it was baaaaaad. I missed work Tuesday, Wednesday, and half of Thursday. I think that's the most I've ever missed for being sick. It took quite a few days before I was in the mood to eat again. Suffice it to say, I felt awful.

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Remember the mantle from this post? I got to see it in person in its new home this past weekend. The homeowners eventually plan on updating the innards of the actual fireplace, but for now, I think it all looks pretty snazzy. What do you think?

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This past weekend was my annual get together with my college girlfriends. It was so much fun. Three of the group have just announced that they're pregnant so it was weird fun talking about that. It definitely makes me realize how much we're growing up! I've known these girls for 9 and 1/2 years and I love them so much. Unfortunately, I never got my camera out, but hopefully someone will email me some soon so I can do a recap.

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While I was slumber partying with the girls, Doc was at home with the kids. They are getting to the ages where they are so busy all the time! This weekend, W had a birthday party Saturday afternoon and A had an overnight party that night. It was nice that Doc and W were able to get in some good father and son time Saturday night. I think it was good for them.

The kids turned in their projects for the Academic Fair at school this week. Doc went at lunch today to see them. Here's A with hers:

And W with his:

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Today is Day 15 with no caffeine. The headaches haven't been nearly as bad as I thought they would be, but I sure am sleepy a lot.  I used to spend all day drinking cokes; now I spend all day yawning. Seriously. I probably yawn at least 100 times a day. I just cannot seem to wake up!

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I think Ellen's doing a good job on American Idol. I like that she doesn't just dish out a lot of fluff like Paula used to. She gives her honest opinion about how she feels about the songs but she doesn't a little more nicely than Simon. And, of course, I like to see the jokes she comes up with.

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Next Monday is the finale on The Bachelor. He's gonna pick Vienna and it just kinda makes me sick. What in the world is he thinking?!?!

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Tomorrow is Friday and I'm so glad. The week sure has felt long since I've been sleepy all day every day! :) Doc and I have absolutely nothing planned for the weekend. I don't remember the last time that happened, but I am so excited about it. Hope you're excited about yours too!