Delayed

"Ladies and gentlemen, this is the captain speaking.  We've learned that there's bad weather in Atlanta right now so we're just going to hang out in the air for a little bit to see if it'll pass by." We were 3.5 hours in on our 4 hour flight.  I looked over at Doc with worry in my eyes.

"They better not keep me from getting to my baby girl."

It had been five days since I'd seen her.  Five looong days.  Good days, but still heart wrenching to hear about all her new tricks - sitting up, holding her bottle, humming -  and not be able to see them in person.  I missed her and had been counting down til she was back in my arms.  It would be later in the evening, her bedtime, but she was going to stay up late to welcome us home.

Thirty minutes passed.

"Folks, this is the captain speaking again.  The Atlanta airport has been closed due to weather.  We have been diverted to Jacksonville, Florida.  We are going to continue on to Florida and I should have us on the ground within the next thirty minutes."

I turned to Doc.  "What does that mean?  In Jacksonville, will we just get on another flight straight to Memphis so we can go home?"

A seasoned flyer, he already knew what we were in for.  We were sitting on a Delta plane headed to an airport without a Delta hub, along with who knows how many other diverted planes.  "There's not a direct flight home from there," he said.

We landed quickly in Jacksonville.  We were fourth in line of the 8 flights diverted there.  But with no gate for our large plane available, there was nothing to do but park on the tarmac.  Doc pulled out a pack of cards from his backpack and we began to play gin rummy.  Anything to pass the time. 

An hour and a half into our wait, the flight attendants asked if there were any passengers that had Jacksonville, FL as their final destination and, if so, would they like to get off the plane if possible.  The thought hadn't even crossed my mind.

"Oh my gosh, there are people who were getting off here.  Why are they stuck sitting here with us??"

"There are no stairs for anyone to get out," Doc told me.  Good point.  I guess they couldn't just jump off.

Another hour passed.  The captain came back on the overhead speaker to tell us we were next in line for the fuel truck and the stairs.  That was a good sign.  We knew we needed fuel before we could leave again, whenever that would be. 

When the stairs arrived, the Jacksonville, FL passengers were able to get off.  Their luggage had to stay.

We were originally supposed to land in Atlanta at 6:25pm.  Shortly after 9:30pm, the pilot told us we were cleared to get ready for takeoff.  Finally!

When diverted to Jacksonville, it took us about 30 minutes to get there from Atlanta.  Because of the bad weather, we had to go the long way back...around all the storms and then back to the airport from the opposite side of Atlanta.  This would be a longer flight, the pilot told us.

As we approached Atlanta, we heard the all too familiar ding of the pilot's speaker coming back on.  "Folks, unfortunately we've arrived in Atlanta at the same time as all the other planes that are returning.  We're going to have to wait up here until we're cleared to land."

I looked out my window and could see the other planes in a single file line like kindergartners headed to the cafeteria.  I tapped Doc, "Look how many planes are out there!"

The flight attendants had run the drink service once during the original flight and that was it.  Doc and I had each had one drink and a tiny bag of peanuts.  Hunger and restlessness were setting in.  I was so relieved to hear the plane wheels touch down on the runway.  We'd made it to Atlanta!

And then the speaker came back on.

"Well, guys, to add to the excitement of the day, we don't have a gate to pull up to so we're going to be sitting here for a while."

Doc was frustrated.  "I don't understand why he doesn't have any sense of urgency at all!"  I tried to be the positive one.  "Well, at least he got us here safe!  And we're here now!  Now we can get on our other plane and go home!"

I knew I had already missed my chance to see my baby girl that night.  Now I was counting on being the first person she saw when she woke up the next morning. 

After an hour of sitting and waiting, we finally pulled up to a gate.  Total time in seats 23 A and B: eleven hours.

We walked off the flight to an airport full of disgruntled passengers.  It was after midnight and nobody wanted to be there.  We rushed to the flight board and I tried to stop to read as Doc continued walking.  "Hey," I yelled after him.  "Don't we need to look to see when our next flight is?"

"It's not on there," he replied.  "It's been cancelled."

Oh.  I'd heard many horror stories of cancelled flights and sleeping in airports, niether of which had ever happened to me.  This did not look good.

By the time I caught up to Doc he was already in a line to get our flight rebooked.  I glanced to the front of the line and estimated at least 80 people in front of us and only one person working the desk.  This really did not look good. 

"Can we get it rebooked online?"  I asked him.  He looked down at his phone.  Dead.  We'd used up all the juice during our 11 hour flight and now it wouldn't even turn on.  I dismissed the "20% Power Remaining" warning on mine and handed it over.  "Here, use mine."

I pulled a charging cord out of our carry on and took his phone to find some power.  People were on the outlets like bugs on a light coated in sugar.  I finally found an open plug-in.  Something green had been spilled on the floor right under in, so I carefully reached over to plug in my cord and then stood with my arm stretched out over the mess to hold the phone.

I could see Doc and watched as he kept making calls.  I couldn't tell if he was getting good news or not.  Finally I gave up, unplugged, and went to check in with him.

"Were you able to get through?" 

"I got a call back scheduled, who knows how long that will take.  I tried to log in  to my account and it kept picking up the ambient background noise.  Now I'm locked out."

UGH.  I saw an open space on a charging station and told him I was going to try to get power on his phone.  There was a man sleeping in the chair between me and the plug-in.  I carefully tried to climb over him, but he opened his eyes about the time I was mid-straddle.

"Sorry.  I just need to plug in my phone."

I sat in the middle of three sleeping passengers and one cuddling couple while holding my charging phone.  This was awful.  A few minutes passed before I saw Doc waving me to come over.  I hesitantly unplugged his phone and climbed back out with a look on my face that told him he better have a good idea because I'm not climbing back into this spot again.

"I think we should go out past security to the main ticket desk and just try to rebook there.  The hotels they're using are already full."

It felt like a good plan so we took off.  Planes were still unboarding so crowds of people were heading in the same direction as us; Atlanta residents who had made it home, I assume.  The tram was no longer running so we were going to have to make it to the front of the airport on foot.  It became a game for me; every person passed was one less that could possibly get ahead of us in line.  I told Doc to "Keep up!"

We made it to the front lobby huffing and puffing and skidded up the Delta counter just as another group was leaving.  "Can I help you?"  "We need to rebook our flight."  The lady smiled politely and pointed across the room.  "You'll need to get in line there."

More than 200 people had already had this same idea.  We were screwed.  It would take hours to get through that line and even if we did, there was no confirmation that we'd get on the first flight out to Memphis.  I was through trying to be the positive one.

"We could rent a car," Doc said.  It was an idea he'd mentioned earlier that I'd dismissed.  Unless we wanted to spend the night and the whole next day hanging out in the Atlanta airport, it sounded like the only good idea left. 

We ran across the room and out the doors.  There was the taxi line.  Where were the rental cars??  Doc guessed they were downstairs.

"Give me your phone, I'm going to try to call and see if we can get one," he said.  I looked down at my phone.  10% power remaining.  I handed it over and returned to my outlet search.  I needed as much juice as I could get in his phone because it still wasn't turning on.

After a few more minutes of charging, he came back to get me.  "Come on, let's go downstairs."  We raced through the airport again, this time to a tram that was still running and hopped on.  Destination: rental cars.

We ran passed Hertz, Rent-A-Car, and others.  Where were we going?  Doc finally turned into the line at Alamo.  Two others were waiting in front of us when the lady at the counter looked past the customer she was helping to announce to us in line, "I'm sorry.  If you don't have a reservation, we're out of cars."

The two people in front of us hung their heads and left.  The counter lady and I both turned our heads to Doc at the same time. "We have a reservation."  The sweetest words I heard all night.

It was 2:15am when we closed the doors to our rental car.  With 2 dead cell phones, growling stomachs, and a six hour drive ahead of us, we were finally getting to leave Atlanta!

Before getting too far into the drive, we tried to stop at a McDonalds.  I was dreaming of a cheeseburger.  I walked up the door.  Locked.  Closed.  We crossed the parking lot to a gas station for snacks, drinks, and a bathroom break.  Two seconds inside the doors and we remembered it was 2:30am and we were in Atlanta.  "We've got to get out of here," I whispered to Doc while trying to avoid making eye contact with the four guys hanging out in the corner.  He paid as fast as he could and we ran out - bathrooms be damned!  The side of the road would be just fine if it came to that.

Ten more miles down the road and we found another gas station, this time with decent bathrooms and a dual phone charger.  We didn't care how much it cost, we weren't leaving without it! 

With only one other stop for another bathroom break and to switch drivers, we made excellent timing.  We pulled into our driveway at 7:20am (gained an hour in the time change) and could see our butterball little girl waving from the kitchen window (along with her Lala and Poppa). 

I didn't even care that I wasn't the first person she saw when she woke up.  I scooped her into my arms and kissed her a million times!!!  She was all I needed.  Who cares if I didn't have any luggage...

Lent

Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!  Has your day been full of looooove?  Mine has, but we'll get to the details of it in another post. Right now, I want to tell you my goals for this Lenten season.  That way, you can help keep me accountable.  If I remember correctly, last year was the first time since, oh I dunno - high school? - that I didn't give up anything for Lent.  I was newly pregnant and figured I was already giving up enough.  :)  But this year I'm back at it and it may be my hardest year yet.  Here goes nothin'.

Give Up:

  • For the next 40+ days, while driving, the only thing I can do on my phone is talk on it.  That means no checking emails, no reading twitter, no scrolling through instagram.  There is nothing on any social media that is as important as the precious cargo I usually have in the car with me, so it's high time I put the phone down.  I don't think it would be possible for me to cut out the phone all together, which is why I'm still allowing phone calls.  And I plan on doing that on speaker phone (or hands-free if I can find my earbuds) as much as possible.

Add:

  • I will floss my teeth every day.  There, I admit it.  I'm not a regular flosser.  But that all changes now!  I'm actually due for a checkup at the dentist's office, but I keep putting off making my appointment because of this very goal.  Maybe if I get a couple weeks of flossing under my belt first I can trick the dentist and his assistants into thinking I've been doing it all along.  Ha.
  • Similar to the goal above, I will also wear my retainer every night.  My parents spent way too much money giving me straight teeth, and I'm slacking on my end of the deal.  I've noticed them shifting out of place for a while now so squeezing the ol' retainer back on them is going to be painful.  I dread it, but hopefully I'll get back in the habit of wearing them regularly.
  • I will exercise 3 times a week.  Now, don't go thinking this means I'm going to a gym.  Oh, heck no.  I'm not ready for that yet.  Doc has given me a short little routine to do to work on getting my legs and belly back to their pre-baby days.  We're talking ten minutes or less, y'all.  But it's more than nothing!

I know, I know.  Nothing says "I love Jesus" more than jello legs, bloody gums, and sore teeth.  What can I say, I'm a dedicated Christian.  (I hope you pick up the sarcasm in that.)  I could sit here and type that I'm going to do a daily devotional or spend 10 minutes a day in prayer or something like that but in my sleep-deprived state of late, I know I'd snooze right through that.  So I'm keeping it real and tackling these 4 things.  I also have a very loose goal to try to blog at least twice a week (I still can't seem to find time for this!).

Oh.  There is one other thing.  Doc and I will be headed out on a mini vacation to celebrate my birthday in just a few weeks and um...yea.  All goals are probably going to be off for that.  Let's face it, no one wants to stand in a hotel bathroom scrubbing their retainer or do any workouts when there's a beach to lay on, right?  So I guess my goals are really for the 40+ days of Lent minus the 5 days we're on vacation.

Do you give up or take on anything for Lent?  Tell me how you're preparing for Easter.

Sigh...I'm off to floss.

The Mighty Fortress

Doc and I played handbells in church again this past Sunday.  This performance was not with the full adult handbell choir, but with our quartet Lama Blast (our name comes from the first two letters of our names).  This is the third time we've performed as a quartet, and this was probably our hardest song to date.  Four people, 8 hands, 31 bells.  You do the math!  

 
For this performance, we set up in the choir loft so the whole congregation could see us.  We also ditched our music folders and laid our music straight on the table so everyone could see our bells. The video cuts out early (my memory is full - eek!) so the last ten seconds aren't on there.
 
 
There were a few mistakes, but overall I think it was one of our best run-throughs with this song.  (We only practiced 3 or 4 times.) We were all incredibly nervous this time!
 
 
Can't get enough?  To watch our first performance as a quartet, click here.  To see our Christmas performance, click here.  (Both of those videos are from practices before church; the video above is from the actual church service.)

Easin' Back In

Well, after my last post about returning to work this week, it seems that Mother Nature doesn't think I should be working! Yesterday was good.  It was a quiet day in the office with a couple people out, but my work bestie showed up with donuts.  Oh yeah!  (I have to practice serious restraint when it comes to donuts...I could easily knock out a dozen on my own.)  The morning flew by and before I knew it, it was 1:00 and we hadn't even had lunch yet!  We decided to go out in celebration of my return and, while walking to our car, realized the sprinkles we saw out the window were actually tiny pieces of ice.  Sleet!

The sleet really picked up because by the time we were finished eating and ready to head back to work, my car had a thin layer of ice covering it.  Uh-oh.  'Round these parts, ice on the road is noooo good.  Around 2:15 I made it back to my desk and a lovely surprise...flowers from Doc!  Y'all, I told you he's the best.

I had barely gotten a chance to thank him for sending them when our CEO sent out an email announcing our office would be closing at 2:30.  Woohoo!!  First day back and I was going to get to leave early and get home to my baby!

Or so I thought...

Turns out the ice on the roads was pretty bad and my usual 15 minute commute took me over two and a half hours!  I ended up getting home later than I do on a normal full work day.  Ugh.  The ice on the roads and bridges was solid in some places and I'll admit, there was one hill in particular that scared me to death.  I prayed the whole time I was on it and I straddled the middle line - I didn't care if anyone honked at me, I needed my space!  Actually, every one behind me took my lead and we formed a single file line down that icy hill and finally, I made it to my mom's house where my baby girl was (I had Mom pick her up when I realized I was going to be a while). Doc and my dad both stayed at their offices in hopes that all the crazies would get off the road and some salt would get thrown down.  They didn't end up getting home until after 10pm!

By this morning, the roads were pretty easy to drive on again.  The only icy part on my commute in to work was the off-ramp of the interstate, but I was expecting it and creeeeeped down it.  The weatherman had warned us that more sleet was on the way, and he was right.  Doc and I are both fortunate to work for people who care about our safety...his boss sent him out the door at 11:00 this morning so he wouldn't have a repeat of the night before.  My boss told me to hit the road around 10:00, but I didn't want to be False Alarm Girl so I waited until around noon when the sleet started to leave.  Our drives home too much less time today since we beat the ice sticking to the roads.  And that's how, at 3:00 on a Tuesday, I'm blogging from underneath a warm blanket in my comfy chair with Lolli curled up beside me and Doc and Katie over in the other chair.

So, I'd tell you how it feels to spend 8 hours at a desk after 16 weeks of maternity leave, but how the heck would I know?!  Maybe I'll get a full day's worth of work in on Thursday...

Maternity Leave

Sixteen weeks...that's how long I was able to stay home with my baby girl.  Sixteen weeks.  Almost four months.  31% of a full year.  That's so long!  So much time!  And yet, it seemed so short. Where did the time go?  I wish I could say that I spent sixteen weeks at home soaking up the soft skin and sweet smells of my new daughter, cuddling on the couch, playing, and watching daytime television.  The truth is, besides a couple shows on the DIY network (it's the only channel I've learned with our new cable service), I have no idea what comes on during daytime TV.  My girl and I?  We were on the go!

Over these sixteen weeks, we took four 9-hour road trips to and from Florida and slept 8 nights in our beach house.  Katie rocked her first two airplane rides, to and from Indiana to visit her grandparents and great-grandfather.  We had two professional photoshoots and countless amateur ones.  Aside from her first week home and one Sunday at the beach, we attended church every week.  On maternity leave, we had countless visitors and hosted friends and family for meals.  We took walks, worked in the shop, unpacked boxes, and continued working in our home.  We spent afternoons at Mimi's house, working on the embroidery machine and napping.  And we shopped!  Oh, how we shopped!  I started her early with her first shopping adventure happening at just a week old when we picked out new living room furniture.  We shopped in outdoor outlet malls, regular malls, stand-alone stores.  We shopped for clothes, furniture, fabric, hardware, tools, and everything in between!

I don't take lightly how lucky I am to have had so much time to spend with her.  And to have a perfectly healthy girl that I could do all these things with!  I thank God daily for that.  Sometimes I wonder if He gave me a relatively easy baby because He knew I had no intentions of slowing down.  I am so, so blessed.

And have I ever told you how wonderful my husband is?  He really is the best husband and a terrific daddy.  I love watching him love on his children.  He works harder than anyone I know - all day at work and then all night at home.  He does everything he can to advance in his career.  He comes home and prepares dinner and helps maintain the house.  He is hands-on with everything for the kids, from changing diapers and feeding bottles to attending basketball games and music recitals.  And because he is so wonderful, he gave me the ultimate gift when Katie was born: getting to decide for myself if I wanted to go back to work or stay at home full time with her.  He was willing to take on all our financial burdens himself so that I could spend my days with my baby.  What a blessing to have that option!

It was an incredibly hard decision.  There were times when I felt like I was choosing between two babies.  There is, of course, my literal baby whom I love so much it hurts sometimes.  How could I possibly say goodbye to her precious face everyday?  But then there was my career.  There are so many things about my job that make it like a baby to me too.  I have worked hard for over seven years to get to where I am, and there are so many parts of my everyday work that I take ownership of and am not quite ready to let go of.  Plus, I love the people I work with and the mission we work for.

I went back and forth so much in my head that I almost wished Doc would just make the decision for me.  It's not always great to have options!  How could I decide?  Would I lose my contacts and skills if I stopped working for a while?  Was I a bad mom if I didn't stay at home?  As much as I would love to play with my daughter all day long, would I really take the time and do the things I needed to every day to teach her?  How would she socialize?  But then again, did I want to only see her for a few hours each night after work?

After some negotiations, the perfect situation has been worked out: part time work.  I hope that I'm not jinxing myself by writing this here since I technically have not signed on the dotted line yet, but all signs are pointing to me being able to work just three days a week.  That gives me four days at home with my girl - the perfect solution.  I get to keep my career but spend time with my little girl too.  This makes one happy mama.

As for Katie, we found the perfect solution for her too.  A sweet woman who lives just around the corner from us will be keeping her on the days that I work.  This woman only keeps babies until they're one year old, so it's a temporary solution, but a really good one for now.  There is one other boy there now; he's about a month or so older than Katie.  We had a couple trial runs with the babysitter this past week and both days went really well.  Katie was happy and well cared for, and that makes me happy (even if I did spend most of the first day in tears).

But that doesn't mean I'm not nervous about tomorrow!  Tomorrow, life starts full speed ahead again.  No more sleeping in.  Our clothes have been ironed and laid out.  Her diaper bag and my laptop bag are both packed.  The alarm clock is set.  We will once again be girls on the go, only tomorrow we go in different directions.  Wish us luck, we may need it!